theotherchristel:
this is the same type of thing that has Chinese girls named Minxiu telling people their name is Michelle because they want to make it easier on White Americans.
this is not a hypothetical example. every one of my Chinese and Indian brethren from grad school had an “American name” they used for White people and White-identifying people as not to have their names fucked up.
It was telling to me that all of us Black and Latino students insisted on knowing their real names and learning to pronounce them properly… because we respected their whole humanity on their terms, not ours.
this is was in response to this exchange i had with a supposed “fan” of a Black, Latino, and white actress. in which this was said…
Me: I’m always advocating for not making multiracial people claim one race… but i do find that a lot of racists find some sort of solace in accepting someone’s humanity by calling them mixed as if that’s a race as opposed to acknowledging their Blackness along with everything else in them. If she were White and Latina only, people would say she’s white and Latina. If Asian and Latina, they would say Asian and Latina. The only reason we keep hearing “mixed” when it relates to her, Obama, Drake, J. Cole, Mariah Carey, is because there is Black or Afro-Latino in there and these are attempts to skip over that.
twerp: lol, ain’t nobody got time to called someone Asian and Latina, or Latina and white please, all I hear is people telling them mixed because that is what they are, and in this world you are mostly define for the place where you grew up and the people whom you grew up with (this is more relevant when you are mixed), at the end she is just a California girl
notice how Black was still conveniently skipped over…
Me: “it’s too hard for me to recognize who someone is. so i’ll just define them how i damn well please and erase their identity as i do it… and then i’ll create asinine rules to define them in a way that makes me comfortable and state my rules as if they are fact”…
what you see at the top is the sidenote.